Fight your Phobia
Published Senin, 31 Agustus 2009 by L3S inTry to manage the fear is not try to rule the mind. Afraid that comes from anxiety, those who worried that because he does not pray, and pray people will not worry.
Why be afraid to commit when it actually wants the good things imaginable committed relationship? It's like to feel the delights of ice cream but afraid of getting fat. Smart way is to select the ice cream low in fat. Recognize your potential partner really, positive and negative, and simulate what you will tolerate the changes will occur after the reply is committed. Love it actually includes the decisions and compromises the long term.
Second step is to identify communication and sepakatkan him about what to be agreed and what is not to agree. Commitment phobia is basically fear of a significant adverse change in, for example, freedom or any other principle, and it was only possible to overcome the communication win-win solution, both happy and not lose the comfort of being single.
Afraid of select? how will u sure enough if he's your mr.right?
well, life is always a risk, whatever it is, small or large .. yg we can do is reduce the risk.
Ever read a story, mate choice is like choosing a tree in the forest in a single trip with limited time, no go back to back. We met a nice-tree, maybe we thought there might be in front of a larger, sturdy, strong, etc. .. and we select the go ahead, after a few moments there was no reply tree is more interesting than the previous reply, inget we can not go back to back, ultimately we still choose one or we reach the end of the woods without a pohonpun.
Commitment is one step higher for us to accept greater responsibility. A person who makes himself mature will not focus on fear of commitment, because I write once again the courage bhw not without fear, but the ability for there to understand other things more important reply to worry about than thinking about fear itself.
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